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What Does It Mean to Die Well?
EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan

What Does It Mean to Die Well?

The phrase “dying well” can stir up many different feelings. Some may imagine a peaceful passing surrounded by loved ones. Others may think of dying without pain, with dignity, or in a way that honors their faith or values. But the truth is, there isn’t a single definition of what it means to die well.

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How to Start the Conversation About Your End-of-Life Wishes
EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan

How to Start the Conversation About Your End-of-Life Wishes

Talking about death isn't easy. But talking about what matters to you before you reach the end of life is one of the most loving things you can do for yourself, and for those who care about you.

This post is here to help you start that conversation—gently, clearly, and with confidence. Whether you're planning ahead for yourself or supporting someone you love, there is wisdom in beginning this dialogue long before it’s urgently needed.

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What Is a Green Burial and Why Might It Matter to You?
EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan EOL Doula Cinda Gillilan

What Is a Green Burial and Why Might It Matter to You?

When you imagine your legacy, you might think of a peaceful ceremony, a favorite song playing, or loved ones gathered in a cherished place. But one question many of us haven’t considered is this: How do we want our bodies to return to the earth? For a growing number of people, the answer lies in green burial—a gentle, environmentally conscious alternative to traditional funeral practices.

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